My blogging brings all the married boys to the yard

I've had several married men admit to me that they love reading my blog so much they actually become...aroused. Obviously, this is an unintended side effect of my musings. But I'm wondering, is this merely a case of wanting what they can't have? Or is it something more? Am I subconsciously doing something to attract these unattainable men to myself?

My old boss used to say that I had "spinster" tattooed to my forehead, and that I only let myself be attracted to men who were unavailable. At the time, I would have said he was right because I knew I was not ready to be in a relationship with anyone. I was too big of a mess to worry about anyone other than myself. But now, even though I am more grounded, why am I still sabotaging myself in this way? Is there a way of breaking this vicious cycle?